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Local Humane Societies either provide a pet loss counseling service or can recommend someone in your area. The American Dog Trainers Network has a list of grief counselors. petloss_support_page.jpg (20774 bytes)
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State Listing of Counseling Services

Alabama Christina Sparks, PhD
Alabama Psychotherapy and Wellness Center, PC
631 Beacon Parkway West
Suite 203
Birmingham, AL 35209

   205-912-2000                                 Fax:205-945-1890

 To subscribe to Dr. Sparks  monthly newsletter, Wellness Notes,
send a blank email to:  email3.gif (275 bytes)  ChristinaSparksPhD-subscribe@topica.com

Arizona

The Pet Grief Support Service provides assistance 24 hours a day. The Pet Grief Support Service is run through the Companion Animal Association of Arizona. In addition to the Help Line, they provide support group meetings; information, literature and reading lists, as well as referrals to other appropriate resources. They also publish a book on Children and Pet Loss.

   (602)-995-5885


California While not a counseling service, you may want to consider this book
When Someone Dies in California

This book is  targeted to the loss of a human family member, however, it does contain a few practical pages on preparing for your pet's care should you go the the Rainbow Bridge before them.  The chapter on grieving is helpful in any loss situation.

This book was kind enough to mention www.superdog.com in their references.

REVMA Pet Loss Support Group.
With professional assistance, the support group serves people who have just lost a pet or are anticipating the loss of a pet. The support group provides low fee counseling for all pet owners. Tuesdays 7-8:15 p.m. Santa Rosa.

707-527-9330 or 707-579-3411

San Rafael
Anne de Lovinfosse,   Ph.D. Pet Loss Support Group and Individual Counseling.

  415-456-5502

San Francisco SPCA
If you've recently lost an animal companion, let a skilled and gentle counselor help you work through the feelings of loss, anger and depression. Dr. Betty Carmack, Professor, University of San Francisco. First Tuesday of every month. 7:30pm to 9pm. Admission is free.

  (415) 554-3000.

The Humane Society of Santa Clara Valley hosts free group sessions every Wednesday from 7:00pm to 8:30pm. A psychology assistant (and Companion Animal Therapist) is teamed up with a clinical psychologist.

  (408) 727-3383  email3.gif (275 bytes) animpsy@ix.netcom.com

Santa Monica
Dr. Julie Axelrod, a licensed Clinical Psychologist, has merged her expertise in working with the terminally ill and their families and her love of animals to offer four different services to help people cope with the loss of a pet. She has family meetings, support groups, children’s programs and individual consultation. Creating a safe place for those in grief is her first priority.

(310) 535-1360

University of California
School of Veterinary Medicine, The Human-Animal Program. Davis, CA 95616.

916-752-7418

University of California-Davis
Staffed by veterinary student volunteers.

6:30pm to 9:30pm Pacific time. Monday through Friday.

  530-752-4200
800-565-1526

Walnut Creek.

Pet Loss Support Group.   2nd & 4th Tuesday of each month, 6:30 - 8:20 PM 
925 - 932-0607


Colorado

Colorado Springs
Dr. Michael V. Coots (Rev., Ph.D.) specializing in Grief and related Depression, Stress and Anxiety.

     719-591-1291
email3.gif (275 bytes)    DrCoots@cs.com

Lyons
Marsha Olson holds Masters degrees in both  Bereavement Support and Transpersonal Counseling Psychology.  She provides individual bereavement support, both in-person or by telephone.

In  her own words: From personal and professional experience, I have come to understand how a heart that has not healed from grief closes in protection, while a healed heart has worked through the loss to arrive at a point of profound compassion and self-understanding: and I might add, the healed heart has the strength, courage and room to love another pet again, if that is chosen.  The relationship with a pet is particularly deep.  I believe that reflects the complete, unconditional love the animal has shared.  That love connects deep to our core and greatly amplifies the loss that is felt upon the pet's death.  When we consider how deeply we have been touched by our pet, it is easy to see why we seek compassionate support during the process of bereavement.

(720) 732-6095    Mar991@msn.com   

Colorado State University Veterinary Teaching Hospital
Changes: The Support for People and Pets Program

970-221-4535


Florida Animal Grieving Center 
Maryann Borgon, M.Ed., listed in the Delta Society resource library, provides telephone and individual consultations and a monthly support group for a fee.  There is no charge to clients of participating veterinarians.

   407-857-0190      REBMJB@aol.com

 

The Humane Society of Broward County in Fort Lauderdale
The Humane Society offers a Pet Loss & Grieving support group the second and fourth Wed of each month at 6:00 at 2070 Griffin Road.

Call (954) 266-6815 for details

 

Miami       

 

University of Florida
College of Veterinary Medicine, Gainesville, FL. Pet Loss Support Hotline.The Hotline is staffed by veterinarian students as well as volunteers who add their personal experience and empathy. Where most Hotlines are local, the University of Florida offers telephone support anywhere in the United States at no charge.

Call  (352) 392-4700, ext. 4080 at any time to leave your name and number.
You will be called back between the hours of 7:00 p.m. and 9:00 p.m. East coast time.

 


Illinois

Lincolnshire
Marilyn G. Putz

Lincolnshire Animal Hospital
847-634-9250 fepmgp@aol.com


Indiana Pet Loss Grief Support Group
Indianapolis

Service Provided:        Telephone Support, Monthly Meetings, Lending Library, Hand outs to take home
 317-251-4028

Our Mission Statement: The primary purpose of the Pet Loss Grief Support Group is to provide a means of communication with others who are experiencing grief over the loss of a pet. We offer support during the grieving process.  The telephone support is available between meetings or for those who feel the need to talk to someone but do not wish to attend a meeting.  We have a newsletter that is printed periodically.  It includes a memorial section that is available at no charge.  There is no charge to attend meetings or to receive newsletters. We are a self-help group that provides education about coping with loss and the emotional support people receive from discussing common feelings.


Iowa

Iowa State University Pet Loss Support Hotline
Massachusetts
Christine McNiff, LMHC
Counseling Services

    978 897-0237

    cmcniff13@aol.com

Christine McNiff is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and Nationally Certified Counselor (NCC) in private practice providing services to individuals, families, groups and corporations. One of Christine’s specialties includes offering grief counseling to adults and children who have experienced the loss of a pet. Christine has both personal and professional experience in the area of working with animals, as noted in the following: life-long pet owner/lover; provider of animal assisted therapy as part of her private practice; volunteer with an animal rescue program; and member of the MSPCA. Christine’s approach is compassionate and understanding of the deep relationships formed between people and animals.

Karen M. Forte, M.A., LMHC

 

617 698-9333

  KMFtherapy@aol.com

Karen Forte is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and a Personal Life Coach in private practice. Karen specializes in Grief & Loss, Stress Management and Life Transitions. Ms. Forte has a love for animals and has experienced the loss of several pets in her lifetime. She understands that a pet is much more...it becomes a family member. The stages of grief are different for each person. Allow Karen to help you work through the stages at your own pace. Explore how our pets teach us valuable life lessons, and the gifts they leave with you forever. I look forward to working with you. For more information, please look at my website: www.mylifechoices.com

Pet Loss Bereavement Counseling Services

Cheryl M. Nahas, MA, LMHC

    781 438-1425

CherylTxst@aol.com

Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 20 years of experience. My private practice specializes in life transitions, depression and stress management. The goal in treatment is not only to assist clients throught the grief stages but also explore the milestones in their lives, and how pets effectively help them through life's journey.I believe in the strong spiritual connection; that animals show us how to live and how to die with simplicity, innocence, love and dignity. I offer consultations and therapy in the client's home where the healing process begins. Bereavement counseling for those who own service animals is also provided.

Tufts University Pet Loss Support Hotline
Michigan Michigan State University College of Veterinary Medicine offers pet loss support services.  A Pet Loss Support Group led by Michael Rogell, Ph.D. and Bonnie Wheeler, LPC meets first Tuesday of every month at A-174 Veterinary Medical Center, Michigan State University, East Lansing, Michigan.

Michael Rogell, Ph.D. (517) 372-2300
Bonnie Wheeler, (517) 372-2543
Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday from 6:30 - 9:30 PM EST.


Minnesota University of Minnesota
College of Veterinary Medicine, St. Paul, Minnesota

  612-624-4747


New Jersey Chatham & Newton
Claire Caines, MSW, LCSW, Caines Center For Psychotherapy

We understand how important your pet is to you. A compassionate, experienced counselor can help you cope with the loss of your pet.  In-person and telephone pet loss counseling
  • Understand your feelings are normal
  • Express grief in your own unique way
  • Share memories of your pet
  • Receive sympathy and support
  • Provide support for your children
  973-300-0428 - Newton, NJ   
  973-301-2440 - Chatham, NJ
       Therapy1@mindspring.com

Madison 
With over 9 years together, Rev Carolyn Carpenter, an Interfaith Minister, and Nancy Saxton Lopez, LCSW, a crisis intervention specialist, co-facilitate a weekly pet loss group held at St. Hubert's Giralda in Madison. The group meets every Tuesday evening from 7:30 to 9:00 p.m. There is no fee for this very caring and compassionate group.

Both are in private practice specializing in issues surrounding the loss of animals. They understand, empathize, and offer help with both clinical and spiritual questions and concerns. Their services include: group and individual counseling in person or via telephone, home visits, memorial services, blessings, communication with beloved pets, and holistic care guidance for remaining and new pets. They can be reached at:

  (973) 829-1967     (973) 361-2764   Carolynrev@aol.com

Moorestown
Founded in November, 1995, PetFriends, Inc. is located in Moorestown, NJ and is staffed by volunteers, each of whom has completed a 15 hour training course on grief, crisis intervention, active listening, and veterinary issues.

800-404-PETS - Long distance calls will be returned collect within 24 hours.

609-667-1717 - Local Southern New Jersey or Philadelphia calls will be returned by a volunteer within 24 hours, free of charge.


New York Floral Park
Sonia Wagner, C.S.W. is a certified social worker with a Masters Degree in Social Work from Hunter College with an office in Rockville Centre, Nassau County and one in Bayside, Queens; home visits are sometimes arranged. Ms Wagner offers counseling to those anticipating or grieving pet loss, and assist parents struggling to help their children understand and cope with this loss. Her practice includes work with couples, families, and children.

  718-831-0035

Ithaca
Pet Loss Support Hotline, College of Veterinary Medicine, Cornell University Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday,  6-9pm EST

  (607) 253-3932  http://www.vet.cornell.edu/public/petloss

Katonah
Good Grief . . .  is a Pet Bereavement group that meets on the last Tuesday of each month, from 7 to 8:30 PM

Four Winds Hospital
Further information can be obtained from

Dr. Herb Nieburg (author of Pet Loss) at Drhnieburg@aol.com
Dr. Jo-Ann Frank at
Peevish2@worldnet.att.net

New York - E. Patchogue
Randall B. Pettit, MBA, MDiv, MSW is a grief & loss counselor with Masters Degrees in Divinity and Social Work from Boston University. The loss of a pet can be as devastating as the loss of a family member or a close friend, but society often tries to minimize it. My counseling approach is to foster an environment in which people know that they have permission to mourn, and to help them face the pain of their loss, since "you cannot heal what you cannot feel." My past experience includes work as a bereavement counselor for a hospice, as well as grief counseling in private practice. I am trained in pastoral counseling as well as social work, should clients wish to bring a spiritual dimension to our sessions. I offer my clients in Suffolk County the option of "house calls."

   516-551-5885     rbpettit@li-fish.net

New York City
The Animal Medical Center  

  212-838-8100

Plainview
Paw To Heart Animal Bereavement Support Services. They offer educational material,  lectures and workshops, and a monthly support group with telephone counseling available . The groups are free of charge to the community, groups are open-ended and accept anyone who has lost a pet or is anticipating the loss due to age or illness. Trained counselors run the groups and they are  members of The National Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement.  These people are caring and devoted to helping others because they have 'been there!'

pawtoheart@usa.net    (516) 785-6416

Smithtown
Donna A. Cooke is a certified school counselor, with a Masters of Counseling from L.I University - Post. In her practice, she helps individuals who find it difficult to deal with the loss of their family pet.

(516) 724-1278  (516) 360-225     dcooke@li.net

North Carolina

Greensboro  
Peggy Haymes is a counselor with the Methodist Counseling Center who has had advanced training in the area of grief and loss. She helps facilitate the Greensboro Area Pet Loss Support Group (sponsored by PAW, meeting on the second Tuesday of the month, 7:30-9:00 p.m. at First Lutheran Church). She also offers one day workshops on grieving and healing the loss of a pet. She offers counseling for children and/or adults dealing with the loss of a pet. 

   336-852-4760

Raleigh
Amy Benton Moulds, M.Ed., NCC is a National Certified Counselor with Central Carolina Centers for Counseling and Psychological Services, PA. In addition to being an avid pet lover and enjoyer, she has years of experience working in the veterinary field. Those years provided her the opportunity to observe heroic efforts, euthanasia, sudden death, and long, painful, passings. This knowledge and experience helps her to be truly empathic with her pet grief clients. She sees children, adolescents, and adults in individual and family settings and a pet loss group is possible in the future.

919-272-1388 or 919-772-9371


North Dakota

Minot
Souris Valley Humane Society, Petloss Support Group hold their meetings every 3rd Tuesday of the month at the Humane Society.  They start their meeting off with a candle light ceremony.

envel.gif (261 bytes)  1935 20th Ave SE  Minot, North Dakota


Ohio

Ohio State University
College of Veterinary Medicine Pet Loss Support Hotline. Monday, Wednesday, Friday. 6:30pm - 9:30pm Messages left on voice mail will be returned during operating hours. The College plans a home page at the Ohio State University web site soon. 

(614) 292-1823

Carolyn Buck, MA, LPCC 
I am a licensed professional clinical counselor with over ten years in the field. I do all types of therapy including pet loss and bereavement. I believe that the death of a pet is not recognized by most of society so there is no support or rituals to help deal with the death. I also think that the death of a pet can bring up other unresolved deaths.

  330-566-2747  cbuck1212@aol.com

Oregon The Dove Lewis Emergency Animal Hospital
Located in Portland, hosts Pet Loss Support Groups which meet four times a month. During these meetings, pet owners talk, reminisce and share stories about their lost pets. Each group is lead by a qualified grief counselor who believes that the bond between pets and people represent some of the most important relationships in a person's life.  Enid Traisman, MSW is a counselor at Dove Lewis. See her book on Pet Loss.  

  228-7282


Pennsylvania The University of Pennsylvania
School of Veterinary medicine, Philadelphia, PA


215-898-4529


Virginia

Chrysalis Counseling & Wellness Center

11717 Bowman Green Dr.                                    10686A Crestwood Dr.
Reston, Va. 20190                                               Manassas, Va. 20109
703-437-0007                                               703-330-3311


Washington Katrina Bilhimer, MA, LMHC serves Olympia/Thurston and Tacoma/Pierce Counties.
  (360) 528-2992    KNBilhimer@aol.com

203 East 4th Ave, Suite 220
Olympia, WA  98501

 

Tina Ellenbogen, D.V.M. is a house call practitioner with a specialty in hospice/end -of - life issues. She teaches workshops for clients/public and would like to offer veterinary advice/info relating to pet loss/ hospice topics. She provides telephone consultations, as well as printed pre-euthanasia decision-making information packets, she has a recorded info message on a local newspaper info line, and has recently completed advanced training at Colorado State Veterinary Schoo (CHANGES program).

(425) 485-7387   (425) 486-0848   drtinavet@aol.com

 

Washington State University
College of Veterinary Medicine, Pet Loss Partnership, Pullman, WA

(509)335-4569

 


Wisconsin Welcome to The Rainbow Passage developed by Charlene Douglas in Grafton, Wisconsin. Charlene has a Masters Degree in counseling from the Oklahoma State University and is a PhD candidate at Washington State University. She has been a Pet Loss and Bereavement Counselor for the last seven years. Her work as an Internet counselor has been featured in numerous AP wire releases and the nationally syndicated TV show, Real Life. She also conducts seminars/workshops on dealing with the topic of pet loss and bereavement. Charlene has written a booklet on "How To Start A Pet Loss Support Group".
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